I think I found something out. You don't want to do this. Maybe when I've graduated from the beginners corner. When you make an application the "/" it over-rides the root context of the ROOT.war when you are using name based vhosts like I am - "so it seems". If I'm wrong about that I'm wrong but that's really how it looks on 3.2.6 .
So I basically just put jboss on its own IP, thats probably how it should be done anyway and my website on it's own IP and everything is just peachy now.