Could you be more specific about what you want to do?
using twiddle tool that provided by jboss we can stop any server (either remote or local for ex: twiddle --server=servername invoke "jboss.system:type=Server" "shutdown") but in case of start, how can we do?
I am using windows XP,how can I do it?
Personally, I use cygwin on Windows, which gives you a unix/linux-like environment, and cygwin supports ssh. Beyond that, I can't tell you much - I'm not much of a Windows user.
You could also try posting the question on the "Installation, Configuration & Deployment" forum at http://www.jboss.com/index.html?module=bb&op=viewforum&f=61.