I'm not following exactly what you have tried and which combination doesn't work. Does Jipijapa org.jipijapa.eclipselink.JBossLogger work at all with your attempts? Jipijapa tries to set the logger here.
If you're using JipiJapa, you shouldn't need to set any eclipselink.logger.* properties, so remove those from your persistence.xml and standalone.xml. The logger that JipiJapa installs can be controlled through the usual logging subsystem in standalone.xml. If you only want to log the SQL that EclipseLink is generating, set the "org.eclipse.persistence.sql" category to DEBUG level or lower.