Using the all configuration are you running as part of a cluster or is it an issolated node?
JMS is only deployed on one of the nodes in a cluster so this could be a possible reason for the lack of the destination manager.
When you copied the all configuration did you copy all of the folders or just some of them?
I have the same problem with the Destination Manager.
How does the cluster determine which server gets the JMS deployed?
Is it merely the first server started in the cluster that gets the HA-JMS provider installed?
Or do you designate one????
I find the lack of documentation disturbing or am I simply not reading everything.