Are you using MDBs to listen to remote queue? If yes have a look at:
If not, post the code that you are using for the listener, in order to connect to the remote queue
Quick question re port.
The firewall on the remote machine is only allowing access to ip:8282. I notice that the mdb is configured for ip:1099. Do I have to open 1099 on the remote machine? Is 1099 the standard JBoss JMS port?