Try using "run -b 127.0.0.1" (or whatever your IP is) to get JBoss to listen on only to one address.
Ok that works. Thanks.
After a "chown jboss:jboss -R $JBOSS_HOME" I have started JBoss with :
exec /bin/su -s /bin/bash jboss -c "/opt/jboss-4.0.2RC1/mystart.sh"
mystart.sh is nothing special it sets up JAVA_HOME / PATH and JAVA_OPTS.
To shutdown I now use:
$JBOSS_HOME/shutdown.sh -s 184.108.40.206 -S
Maybe this information could be put into the "Getting Started Documentation" to help others.