that : was a typefault.
but here is the code of User.java:
package com.spotmyfriend.backend.entity;
import java.io.Serializable;
import java.util.HashSet;
import java.util.Set;
import javax.persistence.Entity;
import javax.persistence.FetchType;
import javax.persistence.GeneratedValue;
import javax.persistence.GenerationType;
import javax.persistence.Id;
import javax.persistence.JoinColumn;
import javax.persistence.JoinTable;
import javax.persistence.ManyToMany;
import javax.persistence.NamedQueries;
import javax.persistence.NamedQuery;
import javax.persistence.OneToOne;
import javax.persistence.Table;
@Entity(name = "User")
@Table(name = "User")
@NamedQueries( {
 @NamedQuery(name = "User.byUserId", query = "SELECT object(u) FROM User u WHERE u.userid = :uid"),
 @NamedQuery(name = "User.ByName", query = "SELECT object(u) FROM User u WHERE u.naam = :uname"),
 @NamedQuery(name = "User.doLogin", query = "SELECT object(u) FROM User u WHERE u.naam = :uname AND u.password = :password"),
 @NamedQuery(name = "User.getAllUsers", query = "SELECT u FROM User u")
})
public class User implements Serializable {
 private static final long serialVersionUID = 7221049085316069742L;
 @Id
 @GeneratedValue(strategy = GenerationType.AUTO)
 private int userid;
 private String naam;
 private String email;
 private String password;
 private int telefoonnummer;
 private String provider;
 private String adres;
 private String postcode;
 private String plaats;
 private String verbindingtype;
 private String locatiebepalingtype;
 private boolean googleMaps;
 private boolean active;
 private String role;
 @OneToOne
 private Friend friend;
 @ManyToMany(targetEntity = Module.class,fetch=FetchType.EAGER)
 @JoinTable(name = "modules_users",
 joinColumns = @JoinColumn(name = "userid"),
 inverseJoinColumns = @JoinColumn(name = "modid"))
 private Set<Module> modules;
 @OneToOne(targetEntity=FriendList.class)
 private FriendList friendlist;
 public User() {
 }
 public User(String naam, String email, String password, int telefoonnr,
 String provider, String adres, String postcode, String plaats,
 String verbindingtype, String locatiebepalingtype,
 boolean googleMaps, boolean active, String role) {
 this.naam = naam;
 this.email = email;
 this.password = password;
 this.telefoonnummer = telefoonnr;
 this.provider = provider;
 this.adres = adres;
 this.postcode = postcode;
 this.plaats = plaats;
 this.verbindingtype = verbindingtype;
 this.locatiebepalingtype = locatiebepalingtype;
 this.googleMaps = googleMaps;
 this.active = true;
 this.role = role;
 }
 public int getUserid() {
 return userid;
 }
 public void setUserid(int userid) {
 this.userid = userid;
 }
 public String getNaam() {
 return naam;
 }
 public void setNaam(String naam) {
 this.naam = naam;
 }
 public String getEmail() {
 return email;
 }
 public void setEmail(String email) {
 this.email = email;
 }
 public String getPassword() {
 return password;
 }
 public void setPassword(String password) {
 this.password = password;
 }
 public int getTelefoonnummer() {
 return telefoonnummer;
 }
 public void setTelefoonnummer(int telefoonnummer) {
 this.telefoonnummer = telefoonnummer;
 }
 public String getProvider() {
 return provider;
 }
 public void setProvider(String provider) {
 this.provider = provider;
 }
 public String getAdres() {
 return adres;
 }
 public void setAdres(String adres) {
 this.adres = adres;
 }
 public String getPostcode() {
 return postcode;
 }
 public void setPostcode(String postcode) {
 this.postcode = postcode;
 }
 public String getPlaats() {
 return plaats;
 }
 public void setPlaats(String plaats) {
 this.plaats = plaats;
 }
 public String getVerbindingtype() {
 return verbindingtype;
 }
 public void setVerbindingtype(String verbindingtype) {
 this.verbindingtype = verbindingtype;
 }
 public String getLocatiebepalingtype() {
 return locatiebepalingtype;
 }
 public void setLocatiebepalingtype(String locatiebepalingtype) {
 this.locatiebepalingtype = locatiebepalingtype;
 }
 public boolean isGoogleMaps() {
 return googleMaps;
 }
 public void setGoogleMaps(boolean googleMaps) {
 this.googleMaps = googleMaps;
 }
 public boolean isActive() {
 return active;
 }
 public void setActive(boolean active) {
 this.active = active;
 }
 public String getRole() {
 return role;
 }
 public void setRole(String role) {
 this.role = role;
 }
 public Set<Module> getModules() {
 if (modules == null) {
 modules = new HashSet<Module>();
 }
 return modules;
 }
 public void setModules(Module activeModules) {
 this.modules.add(activeModules);
 }
 public Friend getFriend() {
 return friend;
 }
 public void setFriend(Friend friendType) {
 this.friend = friendType;
 }
 public FriendList getFriendlist() {
 return friendlist;
 }
 public void setFriendlist(FriendList friendlist) {
 this.friendlist = friendlist;
 }
 @Override
 public String toString() {
 String s = "----------------- user -------------\n";
 s += "userid: " + getUserid() + "\n";
 s += "Naam: " + getNaam() + "\n";
 s += "Adres: " + getAdres() + "\n";
 s += "Email: " + getEmail() + "\n";
 s += "Password:" + getPassword() + "\n";
 s += "Postcode: " + getPostcode() + "\n";
 s += "Plaats: " + getPlaats() + "\n";
 s += "Telefoonnr:" + getTelefoonnummer() + "\n";
 s += "Provider: " + getProvider() + "\n";
 s += "Verbindingstype: " + getVerbindingtype() + "\n";
 s += "Locatiebepalingstype: " + getLocatiebepalingtype() + "\n";
 s += "GoogleMaps: " + isGoogleMaps() + "\n";
 s += "------------------------------------\n";
 s+= "heeft de volgende modules geactiveerd: ";
 Set<Module> mods = getModules();
 if(mods.size()>0) {
 for(Module m: mods) {
 s+= ""+m.getNaam();
 }
 }
 s+= "\n";
 FriendList fl = getFriendlist();
 Set<Friend> friends = fl.getFriends();
 if(friends.size()>1) {
 s+= "heeft vrienden: ";
 for(Friend f : friends) {
 s+= "Naam: "+f.getUser().getNaam();
 s+= "Geblokkeerd: "+f.isBlocked();
 }
 } else {
 s+= "geen vrienden geregistreerd";
 }
 s+= "\n";
 System.out.println(s);
 return s;
 }
}
and this is the UserManagerBean.java: 
package com.spotmyfriend.backend.sessionbeans.usermanagement;
import java.io.Serializable;
import java.util.Collection;
import java.util.List;
import javax.ejb.Local;
import javax.ejb.Remote;
import javax.ejb.Stateful;
import javax.persistence.EntityManager;
import javax.persistence.PersistenceContext;
import javax.persistence.Query;
import com.spotmyfriend.backend.entity.Module;
import com.spotmyfriend.backend.entity.User;
@Remote(UserManager.class)
@Local(UserManager.class)
@Stateful(name = "UserManager")
public class UserManagerBean implements Serializable, UserManager {
 private static final long serialVersionUID = 2667633265960007691L;
 private User user;
 @PersistenceContext(unitName = "spotmyfriend")
 private EntityManager em;
 public UserManagerBean(User user) {
 this.user = user;
 }
 private EntityManager getEm() {
 return em;
 }
 @SuppressWarnings("unchecked")
 public List<User> getAllUsers() {
 List<User> result = getEm().createNamedQuery("User.getAllUsers")
 .getResultList();
 return result;
 }
 public void addModule(Module module) {
 user.setModules(module);
 module.setUser(user);
 getEm().merge(user);
 getEm().merge(module);
 }
 public void removeModule(Module module) {
 Collection<Module> modules = user.getModules();
 modules.remove(module);
 getEm().merge(user);
 }
 public boolean isAdmin() {
 if (user.getRole().equals("administrator")) {
 return true;
 }
 return false;
 }
 public List<User> search(String col, String value) {
 // q.setParameter gebruiken tegen sql-injection!!!
 Query q = getEm().createQuery("SELECT object(u) FROM User u WHERE "
 + col + " LIKE :value").setParameter("value", value);
 return q.getResultList();
 }
 public User getUserById(int uid) {
 Query q = em.createNamedQuery("User.byUserId").setParameter("uid", uid);
 User u = (User) q.getSingleResult();
 return u;
 }
}
the clientcode i execute is: 
String factory = "org.jnp.interfaces.NamingContextFactory";
 String url = "127.0.0.1:1099";
 Properties properties = new Properties();
 properties.put(Context.INITIAL_CONTEXT_FACTORY, factory);
 properties.put(Context.PROVIDER_URL, url);
InitialContext ctx = new InitialContext(properties);
UserManager um = (UserManager) ctx.lookup("UserManager/remote");
 User u = um.getUserById(1);
 u.toString();
thanks in advance!